May mga ilan akong naririnig na komento, reklamo, parinig, at tanong tungkol sa aming pagpapakasal.
Sa buhay talaga kahit anong gawin mo, lagi na lang may taong may masasabi, mapupula, mairereklamo, at maitatanong.
Iba't iba ang mga dahilan. Ang iba ay curious lang, ang iba ay kinikilig, ang iba ay natutuwa para sa amin at gustong malaman ang mga nangyayari sa amin, ang iba ay nangi-ngi-alam lamang, ang iba ay lubos lamang na usisera o usisero, ang iba ay lubos na pulaera o pulaero, at ang iba naman ay tunay na may malasakit.
Ang ilang mga tanong ay nakakatuwa, ang iba ay nakakatawa, at ang iba ay nakakainis. Narito ang ilan sa mga tanong na nakakatawa at ang aking mga sagot.
1. "Bakit ka nag po-post sa Facebook at nag b-blog tungkol sa wedding plans mo?" -
Because I want to. I want to give my FRIENDS a glimpse of my life, my journey towards being a wife, and a mother. The same way I post about the other things about my life. I want to share positivity, gratefulness, and the beauty of the people, places, and everything that life has to offer. And on top of that, when I grow old, I want to look back and remember my journey as a person, daughter, cousin, trainer, supervisor, mentor, coach, friend, aunt, sister, girlfriend, fiancée, wife, mother, godmother, and grandmother.
I blog because I want to remember, not just our wedding day, but the sweat, blood, tears, smiles, love, the people, and the road that took us there.
2. "Dapat hindi ka nag po post para may element of surprise." -
I see your point. Rest assured that I don't post EVERYTHING on social media. OK na? Makakatulog ka na ba sa gabi? Makaka move on ka na? Hindi ko naman pino post yung mga final choices and end product. At sa tingin mo ba i post ko ang tunay na wedding gown ko? So what if I post a picture of the venue? People are going to see it anyway! Tska there will be plenty of surprises during the wedding. Don't worry.
3. "Dapat gayahin mo si __. Hindi sya nagpost tungkol sa kasal nya." - E di good for her! But I'm not her.
4. "Baka sabihin ng iba nagyayabang ka pag nag po post ka." -
Sino ba yang iba na yan? If that is what they think then they are no true friends of mine. Kung tunay kang may malasakit, you won't think ill of a person. I am proud, happy and grateful for the things that are happening to me. There is a difference between being proud and being a show off. If you think I'm the latter, then you may want to click that "unfriend" button.
5. "Ano ba talaga? Bakit pa iba iba ang plano/color/motif/designs/etc. nyo?" -
When we first got engaged, we chose Chinese red and champagne gold for a number of reasons. Chinese red because of Kelvin's heritage and it is also my favorite color. Gold because it was my parents' wedding color. But then I decided to change the motif to coral because the wedding is in the summer and Chinese red might be to bills and not to appropriate does summer. And then nagbago na naman ang isip kayo gusto ko pastel colors ang entourage. Since we got engaged we've changed our minds a number of times from the color, to the theme, to the gown, etc. Bakit? Because we can. Because we want to. Kelvin and I will only get married once and we want the best for the both of us. Mas maganda na na magbago ang isip namin ngayon kesa we stick to our original choice and then regret things afterwards. We've been working our asses off for the past 8 years, siguro naman we deserve to make up and change our minds.
Kung sa pagpili na ng kulay ng toothbrush mo pa iba iba ang isip mo, sa kasal pa kaya?
Ngayon, ako naman ang magtatanong. Bakit ang dami mong tanong at comment? Ano ka ba, curious, naiinggit, o concerned?
Sa buhay talaga kahit anong gawin mo, lagi na lang may taong may masasabi, mapupula, mairereklamo, at maitatanong.
Iba't iba ang mga dahilan. Ang iba ay curious lang, ang iba ay kinikilig, ang iba ay natutuwa para sa amin at gustong malaman ang mga nangyayari sa amin, ang iba ay nangi-ngi-alam lamang, ang iba ay lubos lamang na usisera o usisero, ang iba ay lubos na pulaera o pulaero, at ang iba naman ay tunay na may malasakit.
Ang ilang mga tanong ay nakakatuwa, ang iba ay nakakatawa, at ang iba ay nakakainis. Narito ang ilan sa mga tanong na nakakatawa at ang aking mga sagot.
1. "Bakit ka nag po-post sa Facebook at nag b-blog tungkol sa wedding plans mo?" -
Because I want to. I want to give my FRIENDS a glimpse of my life, my journey towards being a wife, and a mother. The same way I post about the other things about my life. I want to share positivity, gratefulness, and the beauty of the people, places, and everything that life has to offer. And on top of that, when I grow old, I want to look back and remember my journey as a person, daughter, cousin, trainer, supervisor, mentor, coach, friend, aunt, sister, girlfriend, fiancée, wife, mother, godmother, and grandmother.
I blog because I want to remember, not just our wedding day, but the sweat, blood, tears, smiles, love, the people, and the road that took us there.
2. "Dapat hindi ka nag po post para may element of surprise." -
I see your point. Rest assured that I don't post EVERYTHING on social media. OK na? Makakatulog ka na ba sa gabi? Makaka move on ka na? Hindi ko naman pino post yung mga final choices and end product. At sa tingin mo ba i post ko ang tunay na wedding gown ko? So what if I post a picture of the venue? People are going to see it anyway! Tska there will be plenty of surprises during the wedding. Don't worry.
3. "Dapat gayahin mo si __. Hindi sya nagpost tungkol sa kasal nya." - E di good for her! But I'm not her.
4. "Baka sabihin ng iba nagyayabang ka pag nag po post ka." -
Sino ba yang iba na yan? If that is what they think then they are no true friends of mine. Kung tunay kang may malasakit, you won't think ill of a person. I am proud, happy and grateful for the things that are happening to me. There is a difference between being proud and being a show off. If you think I'm the latter, then you may want to click that "unfriend" button.
5. "Ano ba talaga? Bakit pa iba iba ang plano/color/motif/designs/etc. nyo?" -
When we first got engaged, we chose Chinese red and champagne gold for a number of reasons. Chinese red because of Kelvin's heritage and it is also my favorite color. Gold because it was my parents' wedding color. But then I decided to change the motif to coral because the wedding is in the summer and Chinese red might be to bills and not to appropriate does summer. And then nagbago na naman ang isip kayo gusto ko pastel colors ang entourage. Since we got engaged we've changed our minds a number of times from the color, to the theme, to the gown, etc. Bakit? Because we can. Because we want to. Kelvin and I will only get married once and we want the best for the both of us. Mas maganda na na magbago ang isip namin ngayon kesa we stick to our original choice and then regret things afterwards. We've been working our asses off for the past 8 years, siguro naman we deserve to make up and change our minds.
Kung sa pagpili na ng kulay ng toothbrush mo pa iba iba ang isip mo, sa kasal pa kaya?
Ngayon, ako naman ang magtatanong. Bakit ang dami mong tanong at comment? Ano ka ba, curious, naiinggit, o concerned?
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Wedding Blog: http://www.kelvinandleng2015.blogspot.com/
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Hit me up!
Wedding Blog: http://www.kelvinandleng2015.blogspot.com/
My life's blog: http://www.sentimentsofleng.blogspot.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elliane.varias
Twitter: https://twitter.com/PlinsesLeng
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